I saw a discovery channel show about a family in Arkansas that had 16 children and it inspired me. Not to have 16 children, but to joyfully accept all the blessings that may be bestowed on you, and to cheerfully and diligently work though any difficulties life might throw at you. Of course, a family can look perfect when cameras are around, and can quickly degrade to the chaos most families are familiar with, but I really think that the Duggars are a light of hope in this world of conflict and family dysfunction. Michelle should get the mom of the century award!(As an exciting note, she recently gave birth to the first girl in 8 years, and I'm sure that little Johannah will be a much loved baby by all her older siblings, especially the girls!)They show that even when faced with 8 times the people and personalities and dreams and goals, that all is possible when everyone works together. It puts to shame those who have only one sibling, but can't seem to put aside their selfishness and help one another. It definitely put me to shame. With all my complaining about my rebellious younger sister, I realize that simply giving up all frustration with her and becoming self-giving will do a world of good. While 16 children are a gift from God that I dare not ask for (he gives those kinds of responsibilities to only the most loyal and strong of people, like Jim Bob and Michelle) I am looking forward very much to the day that I can put some of their inspired love, patience, planning, and altruism to work in my own family. For now, I'll work on my sister.