It's a sunny day and I have a sunroof on my car! Perfect thing to lift your mood after a long week of little rebellious sister nonsense. My sister is 18 and thinks she owns the world and everyone in it. She gives no regard for my parents or their rules. She delights in being extreme. She's been smoking since she was 16 and into drug since 15. Now she's 18 my parents are so fed up with screaming matches every time she comes home high or drunk that they've given up it seems, a passive, exhausted shrug. I haven't seen her for five days. She crashes at a different friend's house every night and only comes home when she needs to shower or get fresh clothes. What are we, a YMCA?? I've given up letting what she does frustrate me too much, but lately the "Thank God you're not like your sister" and "Thanks for being normal" comments I've been getting from my mother worry me. I'm afraid that her always comparing me to my sister will give her unrealistic expectations of me. The constant negative comments she makes are also reinforcing the idea that she's a bad kid. My sister's not a bad kid. Just one that makes bad choices. It seems I will be moving soon, so the frustration I feel will probably lesson with distance.